An Islamic channel for Muslim women seeking practical guidance to improve their lives through faith.

This channel focuses on helping women become better wives and emotionally strong mothers through calm, firm, and compassionate parenting.

I’m Umm Umar, certified in Pre-School Parenting, Marital & Pre-Marital Counselling and intimacy coaching. Awaiting certifications in REBT, CBT foundations, and hypnotherapy. I’m an author too. Pls find my books and journals in Amazon or Etsy stores linked below.

I was born in Saudi Arabia which gave me the opportunity to obtain Islamic knowledge under scholars. I hold a bachelors and masters in Islamic studies. I’ve also worked professionally as a teacher for many years.

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Al Qawarir

Have you ever found yourself arguing with your child over something small, only for it to turn into a battle neither of you wanted?

Sometimes, the more we push for cooperation, the more our children push back. And before we know it, we're both frustrated and exhausted.

But parenting isn't about winning every argument. It's about learning how to guide your child with calmness, set clear boundaries, and encourage cooperation without turning every difficult moment into a power struggle.

As Muslim mothers, we can strive to parent with both firmness and compassion. Our children need guidance and boundaries, but they also need to feel connected to us.

DEFIANT TO COMPLIANT helps you learn practical Islamic parenting tools for setting boundaries, building cooperation, and using compassionate discipline without relying on constant arguments or harsh reactions.

If you're ready to stop feeling like you have to fight your child just to guide them, join DEFIANT TO COMPLIANT and learn a calmer, more connected approach to parenting, in shaa Allah!

Click this link for more information: www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/

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3 days ago | [YT] | 20

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Sometimes what looks like difficult behavior is actually a child struggling with big emotions, tiredness, frustration, or overwhelm.

When we focus only on correcting the behavior, we can miss what is happening underneath. Understanding your child’s needs doesn’t mean removing boundaries or allowing everything. It means learning how to guide your child with both compassion and firmness.

With the right approach, you can set clear boundaries, encourage cooperation, and help your child develop better ways to express themselves without turning every difficult moment into a battle.

Inside DEFIANT TO COMPLIANT, you’ll learn practical Islamic parenting tools to understand your child’s behavior, set healthy boundaries, build cooperation, and discipline without losing connection.

You can be firm while still being compassionate. You can guide your child without constantly fighting against them. 🤍

Learn more about DEFIANT TO COMPLIANT through this link: www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/

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5 days ago | [YT] | 25

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Being a gentle parent doesn’t mean letting your child do whatever they want.

Children still need boundaries, clear limits, and guidance. The goal is to hold those boundaries without fear, humiliation, harshness, or damaging the connection you have with your child.

You can say no and still be loving. You can be firm without raising your voice. And you can discipline your child in a way that teaches rather than simply punishes.

Inside DEFIANT TO COMPLIANT, you’ll learn practical tools for compassionate discipline, setting clear limits, and using consequences that help your child learn and grow while protecting your relationship.

If you want to learn a calmer and more compassionate way to guide your child, this is for you. ❤️

DEFIANT TO COMPLIANT is currently on sale for £29, reduced from £100.

Check this link for more info: www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/

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1 week ago | [YT] | 13

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1 week ago | [YT] | 2

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Tired of repeating yourself, dealing with power struggles, and feeling guilty after yelling at your child?

DEFIANT TO COMPLIANT is an Islamic parenting course designed to help mothers of children ages 3–7 build cooperation, set healthy boundaries, and respond to challenging behavior without relying on yelling or harsh punishment.

This course focuses on practical parenting strategies that help you understand your child's behavior while maintaining your authority and strengthening your connection with them.

Inside the course, you'll learn how to:

• Reduce yelling and repeated commands
• Understand the reasons behind challenging behavior
• Build cooperation through connection and communication
• Give clear instructions and set realistic expectations
• Establish compassionate boundaries and consequences
• Manage your own parenting triggers and emotional reactions
• Handle difficult parenting moments with greater calm and confidence
• Use discipline approaches rooted in Islamic values, etc

You'll also receive 24 training videos, 4 modules, printable resources, quizzes, and bonus materials to support you throughout the course.

The goal isn't to raise children who simply obey out of fear.

It's to help you build a home where connection, clear boundaries, cooperation, and Islamic values work together.

🌿 DEFIANT TO COMPLIANT

If you're ready to break the yelling cycle and learn a more compassionate approach to parenting, click the link to join: www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/

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1 week ago | [YT] | 31

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ANGER is a normal human emotion. The goal isn't to never feel angry, but to learn how to respond to anger without allowing it to control the way we treat our children.

For Muslim parents, emotional regulation can also be approached through the guidance and example of the Prophet ﷺ, who taught restraint, gentleness, and mercy even in difficult moments.

Learning to manage anger doesn't happen overnight. It takes awareness, practice, and consistent effort to develop healthier responses during stressful parenting situations.

With the right tools and intentional practice, emotional regulation can become a skill you continue to strengthen over time.

Inside Your Path to Lasting Calm, you'll learn practical Islamic anger-management tools designed to help you navigate everyday parenting challenges with greater self-control, mercy, and awareness.

Mercy can become your parenting foundation again.

✨ Join Your Path to Lasting Calm today for only £10.

Check this link for more details: alqwarir1.systeme.io/your-path-to-lasting-calm

#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #MuslimMothers #AngerManagement #EmotionalRegulation #CalmParenting #ParentingAdvice #ParentingTips #GentleParenting #PositiveParenting #Motherhood #IslamicParentingTips

1 week ago | [YT] | 19

Al Qawarir

Motherhood can be difficult even when you already know what you should be doing.

Many mothers already understand that yelling isn't the response they want to have. The challenge is putting that knowledge into practice when they're exhausted, overstimulated, emotionally drained, and dealing with difficult moments in real time.

That's why guilt alone isn't enough to change parenting patterns.

What mothers often need are practical tools they can actually use when stress is high. Learning how to recognize emotional triggers, pause, regulate, and respond differently can gradually create meaningful changes in the way you experience motherhood.

You don't need to become a perfect parent overnight. Small, realistic changes can build emotional regulation and a calmer parenting environment over time.

Inside Your Path to Lasting Calm, you'll learn practical emotional regulation tools designed to support busy Muslim mothers through the real challenges of motherhood, helping you respond with greater calm, awareness, and intention.

You don't have to figure this out alone anymore.

✨ Join Your Path to Lasting Calm today and start healing with intention.
Check the link for more details: alqwarir1.systeme.io/your-path-to-lasting-calm

#CalmParenting #MuslimMothers #MuslimParenting #EmotionalRegulation #ParentingAdvice #ParentingTips #GentleParenting #PositiveParenting #Motherhood #MomBurnout #AngerManagement #CalmMotherhood

1 week ago | [YT] | 32

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REAL FEEDBACK from a mother inside Your Path To Lasting Calm 🤍

Sometimes, the first step toward calmer parenting is not simply trying harder to stay calm.

It’s understanding your anger, your triggers, and the mindset behind your reactions.

One of our students shared how this workshop helped her see how our mindset can affect the way we respond and behave.

Alhamdulillah, may Allah make this journey a source of healing, growth, and more rahmah in our homes.

If you’re ready to work on your anger and create a calmer home, Your Path To Lasting Calm is currently on sale for £10 instead of the regular £50.

✨ Lifetime access
✨ 29 short training videos
✨ Healing Childhood Triggers Special
✨ Calmness Visual
✨ FREE Your Path to Lasting Calm Journal
✨ WhatsApp support group for ladies

Join here: alqwarir1.systeme.io/your-path-to-lasting-calm

May Allah help us become the calm, intentional mothers we strive to be. Ameen!

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2 weeks ago | [YT] | 3

Al Qawarir

The emotional atmosphere of a home can have a powerful impact on family relationships. When anger, frustration, and repeated conflict become part of daily life, creating a calmer home can begin with understanding and changing our own responses.

Healing anger doesn't mean never feeling angry. It means learning to recognize your emotions, pause before reacting, repair after difficult moments, and develop healthier ways to respond.

A peaceful home is built gradually through small, intentional changes. Every calmer response, every pause, and every moment of repair can become part of creating greater emotional safety and connection within the family.

Inside Your Path to Lasting Calm, you'll learn practical tools to help manage anger, regulate your emotions, and create a calmer parenting environment rooted in mercy, awareness, and emotional safety.

The change can begin with you, in shaa Allah!

✨ Join Your Path to Lasting Calm today for only £10.
Check the link for more details: alqwarir1.systeme.io/your-path-to-lasting-calm

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2 weeks ago | [YT] | 52

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Motherhood can be overwhelming, especially when you're constantly surrounded by noise, interruptions, responsibilities, and the needs of your children.

When your mind and nervous system rarely get a chance to reset, your patience can become thinner. This isn't necessarily because you're “too emotional” or because you don't love your children. Sometimes, you're simply carrying more stimulation than your body and mind can comfortably handle.

Understanding overstimulation is an important part of calm parenting. When mothers learn to recognize their limits, they can begin responding to difficult moments with more awareness instead of constantly pushing themselves past exhaustion.

Rest and emotional regulation are not signs of weakness. They are important parts of creating a calmer and healthier parenting experience.

Inside Your Path to Lasting Calm, you'll learn practical calming tools to help you navigate overwhelming motherhood moments with greater emotional awareness, patience, and control.

🤍 You deserve emotional peace too, mama.

Join today and start your path to lasting calm.
Check the link to join: alqwarir1.systeme.io/your-path-to-lasting-calm

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