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UNCLEAR FLAGS
No One Said That
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YOU CANT SHAKE ME FROM A PAST I ALREADY OUTGREW
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Leave Them With the Past They Can’t Let Go Of
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JEALOUS FRIENDS ARE CONFUSED BY WHO YOU ARE
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THEY BELIEVE THEY HAVE POWER WHEN YOU REACT
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NO ONE NEED TO KNOW YOUR TRIGGERS
THEY GOT THE ANSWER FROM YOUR REACTION
THEY VIOLATED AFTER YOU ALREADY EXPLAINED
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YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT
STOP DEFENDING SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT
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YOU DONT HAVE TO DEFEND EVERY SCAR
KNOW WHERE TO PUT THEM
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THEY WANT ACCESS TO FEEL RELEVANT
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GOOD PEOPLE IN THE WRONG PLACES WILL DISSAPOINT YOU
DONT LET THEM BAIT YOU INTO THEIR TEST
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YOU CAN MAKE AN EXCUSE OR A PATH FOR THEM
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOUR TRIGGER BUTTONS STOP WORKING
THE FREINDSHIP WAS BUILT FOR A REASON IN THAT SEASON
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IT'S MORE ABOUT THEIR REGRET THAN YOUR PROGRESS
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WHEN THE FRIENDHSIP GOES QUIET
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BEST FRIEND DOES NOT MEAN ONLY FRIEND
YOU DONT HAVE TO ANNOUNCE EVERY EMOTIONAL BULLSEYE
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PLAN IT HOW YOU WANT IT NOT HOW THEY WISH IT
STOP HELPING THEM UNDERSTAND YOUR WEAK POINTS
FORGIVENESS RESTORES MY PEACE NOT YOUR ACCESS
WHAT TO DO ABOUT FRIENDS WHO BAIT YOU
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WHEN REMEMBERING IS ALL THEY CAN DO
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WHEN YOUR HEALING COST THEM TOO MUCH
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LESS ACCESS CAN GROW THE FRIENDSHIP
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THEY NEED EVERYONE TO REMEMBER WHO YOU WERE
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HOW TO SUPPORT A FRIEND YOU DONT AGREE WITH
THEY DO THIS WHEN YOU HEAL
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YOU DONT HAVE TO GO BACK TO FIT IN
THEY ONLY SEE WHO YOU WERE BECAUSE THEY CANT ACCEPT WHO YOU'VE BECOME
EVERY FRIEND CANNOT BE EVERY FRIEND
THEY ARE FIGHTING THEIR OWN MEMORY
THEY ALREADY TOLD YOU
Stop Showing Them What Still Hurts
SILENCE EXPOSES REAL TRUTHS
THEY DONT NEED THE BLUEPRINT
BUT WAS IT REALLY A JOKE THOUGH?
WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT?
THEY ARE DEPENDING ON YOUR OLD REACTION
WHEN NEW CONNECTIONS THREATEN YOUR OLD ONES
STOP INVITING THEM
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SOMETIMES HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE
THEY NEVER ASKED FOR IT
WHEN YOUR HEALING BREAKS THEIR HEART
WHY DO THEY NEED ALL THE DETAILS?
YOU CANT SHAKE ME FROM A PAST I HEALED FROM
THEY THINK TIME GRANTS ACCESS
WATCH THIS IF THEY CONSTATNTLY TEST YOUR PATIENCE
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STOP ACCEPTING I'LL DO BETTER
History Is Not A Access Key
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ENFORCING A BOUNDARY WILL COST YOU, NOT BREAK YOU.
THE ENEMY OF YOUR ENEMY IS NOT YOUR FRIEND
ACCEPTING THAT THE EVIDENCE ALREADY ANSWERED THE QUESTION
THEY ONLY LIKE THE VERSION OF YOU THEY CAN MANAGE
WHEN THEY TRY YOU INSTEAD OF JESUS
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YOU WERENT SOULMATES YOU WERE CELL MATES
CLARITY WITHOUT A DECISION IS SELF-DECEPTION
STOP AUDTIONING FOR FRIENDSHIP YOU ALREADY HAVE
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WHY HAVE EXPECTATIONS YOU NEVER COMMUNICATED?
SOME FRIENDS SECRETLY NEED YOU TO STAY STRUGGLING
CONSEQUENCES SUCK BUT SO DO YOUR FRIENDS
ENVY SHOULD HAVE NO PLACE IN FRIENDSHIPS
CHANGE ISNT WHEN THEY UNDERSTAND WHY YOURE HURT
JUST BECAUSE THEY KNOW YOUR PAIN DOES NOT MEAN THEY KNOW YOUR PURPOSE
standing on your boundaries is not an easy task with loved ones
HISTORY IS NOT A LIFETIME CONTRACT
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IT'S NOT A RED FLAG IF YOU CAN STILL TAKE IT
The hardest flag to identify is usually the one you keep **explaining away
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YOU ARE LOOKING FOR RED FLAGS THAT DONT BELONG TO YOU
DISTANCE MEANS THEY NEVER HAVE TO LIE
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EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT AND SO ARE YOUR RED FLAGS
ARE YOU A FREIND OR A HOTLINE?
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WHAT WE GET WRONG ABOUT RED FLAGS
YOUR BOUNDARIES DID NOT RUIN THE FRIENDSHIP
STOP CONFUSING ACCESS WITH SUPPORT
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Early Access is not Lifetime Alignment
STOP OVER PAYING FOR THEIR ACCESS TO YOU
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Controlling friendships often disguise obedience as loyalty.
KNOW YOUR NEXT MOVE
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START PAYING ATTENTION
DISTANCE IN A RELATIONSHIP IS INTENTIONAL
CHOOSE THE DECISION
SET THE CONSEQUENCE
DEFINE REAL CHANGE
ENFORCE THE BOUNDARY
STATE THE REQUIREMENT
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Comment what happened and let’s identify what the moment requires.
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UNDERSTAND WHAT THE MOMENT REQUIRES
THE PATTERN JUST CONFIRMED WHAT YOU ALREADY KNEW NOW WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO?
THERE IS NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT, IT'S DECISION TIME
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YOU MISS WHAT YOU SPEED PAST
Watch and Observe
STOP LETTING YOUR EMOTIONS ANSWER QUESTIONS YOU HAVE NOT ASKED
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ASK THE DAMN QUESTION. UNCLEAR MOMENTS NEED CLARITY
FOR RED FLAGS, THE MOMENT REQUIRES A QUESTION: WHAT DO I NEED TO PROTECT MYSELF?
RED FLAGS ARE CLEAR SIGNS OF HARM SOME ARE IMMEDIATE SOME DEVELOP
A Red Flag does not always reveal the bad guy sometimes it reveals what is needed in the mom
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When a red flag is the only color you know, You become color blind to the OTHER FLAGS.
Not every situation deserves the same response.
what does the moment require you to do?
Not every uncomfortable moment is a red flag.
TRUST YOURSELF ENOUGH TO INVESTIGATE WHAT YOU FEEL
You owe yourself more than a reaction You owe yourself clarity
YOU JUST DIDNT KNOW WHAT IT REQUIRED FROM YOU
NOT EVERYTHING “OFF” IS A RED FLAG
STOP LOOKING FOR RED FLAGS
YOUR FEELING CAN BE REAL WITHOUT YOUR CONCLUSION BEING TRUE
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HOW DID YOU MISS THE RED FLAGS?
Pay attention to the moment you start betraying yourself to make someone else comfortable
LEARN TO IDENTIFY UNLCEAR, YELLOW, ORANGE & RED FLAGS
