DrBAE - Dr Barton's Aural Elixirs
so often we need to stop and reflect....
what are we arguing about?
so often we get caught up in our experience, our "territory" and project our understanding of the other person's "experience and territory" back into our ego to lead to not a constructive argument but a personal attack - and l it's actually THAT what we are arguing over!
Reflect if I am genuinely trying to come to some kind of accord?
Do I really want to establish the "facts" (the truth) with the other person?
Do I just want to defend my position out of ego, or win out of conceit or pride?
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