The Shape of Wellness
Hi, I'm Darly Sebastian, a Licensed Professional Counselor and Trauma-Informed Relationship Coach with 24 years of experience helping individuals and couples heal and love well.
On this channel, we talk about why love feels hard, and how to change that: childhood wounds, relationship patterns, emotional attunement, and what it means to be a balanced woman or a balanced man.
You'll find teaching videos, real-life examples, and affirmations to help you come home to yourself.
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The Shape of Wellness
May 21/25 @— 6pm CST Join us. Let’s talk truth, trauma, and emotional sovereignty.
What happens when someone in power sees your potential, praises your growth, and opens emotional doors—just when you’re most vulnerable? For survivors of childhood trauma, especially those who were abused, dismissed, or unseen, this can feel like love. Safety. Even destiny.
But is it really guidance… or subtle manipulation?
In this live, I’m joining Allison Hazel to explore a real story of a young woman navigating admiration, attachment, and confusion in a professional setting. Her supervisor—a respected, spiritual authority—may be speaking life into her, but he’s also blurring boundaries.
We’ll explore how unhealed wounds awaken the Nymph and Heart archetypes, and how powerful figures can unconsciously slip into the shadow side of the Magician or King—crossing emotional lines under the illusion of support.
This conversation is for every woman who’s felt emotionally lit up by someone in power—and wondered if it was mentorship, manipulation, or both.
#TraumaRecovery #EmotionalAbuse #NarcissisticAbuse #CPTSD #ChildhoodTrauma #HealingJourney #PowerDynamics #EmotionalManipulation #PsychologicalSafety #TraumaInformed
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