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Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind

Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind is a podcast about one-sided divorce: when you keep being reasonable, and it keeps being used against you.

Every fair offer becomes the floor for a bigger demand. Every concession buys you nothing. That is a one-sided divorce, and it plays by different rules than the mutual divorce your friends went through.

This show is for people living that divorce. Corey Shapiro has spent more than 25 years as a matrimonial attorney in high-conflict cases, and this is where he explains the game: why staying calm is a weapon and not a weakness, what your spouse's attorney is actually doing, and how to stop reacting and start deciding.

Based on the book Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind. For when being reasonable stops working.

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13:08

It Is Over. So Why Do I Not Feel Free?

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It Isn't Better. It's Just Different

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8:01

You Didn't Get to Grieve Yet

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10:08

You Settled Your Divorce. Now What?

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10:28

The Opposing Lawyer Admitted They Knew They'd Lose

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You Did Everything Right. They Still Won't Settle.

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Why Do I Have to Take the High Road?

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The Three Unspoken Rules of Divorce Court

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Mediation Is Not Giving Up

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Is This Attorney Actually on Your Side?

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7:53

Can They Afford the Four Seasons for a Year?

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7:32

Refusing To Give An Inch Feels Like Strength

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You Told Yourself It Wouldn't Come Up

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Every Issue Feels Like an Emergency

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You Keep Being Reasonable. It Keeps Not Working.

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5:13

Nobody explained how any of this works

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2:56

When It Doesn't Feel Like It's Working

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8:21

Reply Like a Judge Is Reading Every Word

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5:58

When Being Reasonable Stops Working

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8:23

Stop Telling. Start Asking.

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7:22

What to Say Instead of "That's Ridiculous"

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6:36

Build Momentum Without Caving

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8:25

What to Say Instead of "Where Have You Been?"

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10:26

Your Reaction Is Right. Your Response Cannot Be.

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9:47

Your Feelings Don't Matter in Divorce Court. Your Actions Do.

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7:53

The Secret Weapon That Makes You More Persuasive in Your Divorce

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5:58

You Think Winning Changes Everything. You're Wrong.

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5:54

Divorce Settlement Proposal: This Can't Be Real

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7:28

Why Your First Instinct Is Ruining Your Divorce

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7:54

The Checkpoint You Can't Skip

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8:48

The Divorce Trap Parents Fall Into: Harming Kids Mentally

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10:31

Triggered by His Text? Here's What to Do

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8:18

Your Spouse Hiding Documents? This is How It Backfires

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9:14

You're Not Weak. You're Depleted.

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9:37

You Raised Them Alone. Now the Court Wants 50/50.

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8:26

That Text Hits Different When You're Already Stressed About the Weekend

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8:41

That Angry Text Message Hit Too Close to Home

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8:47

You Can't Solve a Problem With Someone Who Needs a Problem

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5:31

The Parent Who Reacts Least Wins Most

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6:28

Your Divorce Just Got More Expensive Here's Why

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7:17

Your Divorce Lawyer Can't Help You If You Don't Understand This

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12:13

Start Here 2026: Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind

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37:19

The Emotionally Savvy Divorce with Katherine Miller

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Divorce Isn't Just an Ending. It's a Reckoning.

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11:59

You Don't Need to Earn Rest

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9:54

You Don't Have to Win the Holidays

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Why Some Kids Heal After Divorce and Others Don’t

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Can You Find Happiness Again After Divorce?

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Why Your Divorce Recovery Isn't Working and How to Fix It

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Are You Accidentally Letting Anxiety Turn into Anger in Your Divorce?

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When Your Ex Plays Games with Discovery: How to Protect Yourself

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When Child Support Doesn’t Come In: How to Respond Without Hurting Your Case

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Escape vs. Take a Break: Which Divorce Strategy Works?

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Court Is a Tool Not a Therapist

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The Lawyer You Hire Can Save Your Family or Burn It Down

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How to Respond Wisely When Every Button Is Pushed

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How to Stay Calm When Your Ex Knows Exactly How to Get to You

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7:53

Why Pausing During Divorce Is a Power Move

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8:19

Why Divorce Feels Like Groundhog Day and How to Break the Cycle

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7:41

When the Urge to Leave Isn’t the Answer (Yet)

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