The problem isn’t you. It isn’t them. The problem is the pattern.
Welcome to Relationship Reset. I am Dr. Shivani, a clinician with 20+ years of experience helping people move from reactive loops to a place of clarity and choice.
This channel is for those done with "victim vs. villain" narratives. If you find yourself bracing before they walk in, scanning for moods, or disappearing to keep the peace, you aren’t "broken"—you are caught in a mechanism.
Using Transactional Analysis (TA) and IFS, we move beyond generic advice to explore:
Racket Feelings: Why you feel "guilty" when the accurate feeling is anger.
Over-functioning: Why you compulsively carry the load and how to stop.
Conditional Worth: Breaking the cycle of "performing" to be loved.
Not blame. Not fix. Understand. When you name the pattern with precision, it can no longer run you. Subscribe to start your reset.
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